Relationship Coaching

Relationship Coaching. Man and woman close.When our primary relationship is distressed our whole world can feel upside down and stressed out. Healing can be done quickly and deeply when we understand that what we need, and what our partner needs, is to feel secure. All upsets stem from feeling insecure in some way.

When you work with me you will understand and learn about:

  • Your reactive cycle and how to stop taking each other into the hole.
  • How you scare your partner.
  • How to calm each other down.
  • How to repair after you have triggered each other.
  • Your partner’s unique personality type, as well as your own. Understanding that different personalities have different ways of processing helps us to not take our partner so personally.


I am trained by and have been working with  John Michael Grey  since 2010. I assist John in his couples retreats and work individually with couples to repair attachment bonds and create secure relationships. John has synthesized the attachment work of  Sue Johnson, Stan Tatkin, the enneagram, NVC and Somatic Experiencing into a powerful healing modality for living in relationship. This work is rich and full of tools for bringing true intimacy into your relationship. Having applied the tools to my own relationship with great success, I am passionate about helping other couples heal and find their relationship joy.


 “Thank you for believing in us. We are going to make itmake it in the sense that for the rest of our lives we will have that calm, that peace, that trust and hold each other in safety. You helped us manifest these qualities and we are grateful.”     ~ L and M Calvi


Sessions are $125 an hour. Most sessions are 1.5 hours.

Take a block of time:

3 hours: $350

One day, 6 hours: $625

Two days, 6 hours each day: $1,100

Three days, 6 hours each day: $1550

Call for a free 20-minute consultation: 707-971-0340

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Lauren Darges

Lauren Darges, RScP, SEP

Spiritual Counselor
Relationship Coach
Meditation Teacher

Sessions in person, by phone or Skype. Call for a free 20 minute consultation.

T: 707.971.0340

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